In a Peanuts cartoon, Lucy says to Snoopy: “There are times when you really bug me! But I must admit there are also times when I feel like giving you a big hug.”
Snoopy replies, “That’s the way I am…huggable and buggable.”
When you have a meltdown in a relationship and it appears the other party is at fault, just remember: you’re not so hot either! We’re all “huggable and buggable.” That’s why Jesus gave us what we call the Golden Rule in Matthew 7:12: “So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.”